The 9 Wedding Tasks You Don't Need to Do Right Away

The 9 Wedding Tasks You Don't Need to Do Right Away

If your partner just popped the question, congrats. We'll let you in on a little secret: If you want to enjoy your engagement, you don't have to start planning your wedding immediately. Things like when to ask your bridesmaids to join your wedding party, dress shopping and general legal contracts can wait for the time being. Right now, it's about enjoying the moment, sharing your news with loved ones, and taking gorgeous ring selfies. If you're itching to get started, there are some things you can do right after being engaged (like picking your wedding style or starting a wedding planning checklist). Here are nine important wedding planning to-dos you can hold off on.

Put More You into Your Wedding Day

Put More You into Your Wedding Day

A wedding day is filled with symbolic tradition, from varied religious customs to the never-ending circle reflected in the rings and the types of flowers accentuating the celebration. Even with all the traditional rituals to consider, nearly every bride and groom can find ways to give their special day some unique touches that reflect their personality and love.

Music sets the mood for every wedding, and it's an easy place to put your own spin on the celebration. Whether you forgo the traditional bridal march entirely or simply look for an arrangement that gives an updated twist to the classic version, let guests know this isn't your average wedding by setting the festivities against a soundtrack that lets your true character shine.

The wedding party is intended to be a collection of those nearest and dearest to the bride and groom, who help ensure the day goes off without a hitch and who lead fellow revelers in celebrating the start of the new couple's life together. That being said, there's no reason this group must be limited to women on her side and guys on his, or even that it's limited to humans - a beloved pooch can make for an adorable ring-bearer, after all.

Photography is an essential element of your big day, but think beyond the images you'll capture throughout the wedding and reception. Photos lend a personal touch, no matter what your color scheme or theme. Integrate photos of the two of you at various stages of life, together as a couple and with loved ones (perhaps even some you're honoring in memoriam). You can display these at a table with the guest book, as part of the table centerpieces, or even on the gift table. Or take things digital and load all your images into a slide show set to music.

Make favors meaningful. Forgo more common items like bubbles and chocolate, and instead send a little of yourself home with your guests. Maybe it's a memento from a place with special meaning to you both, or a bottle opener shaped like a bicycle to represent the way you met. Just think about the moments and things that define you as a couple and do some searching online. You'll probably be surprised by how quickly the options pile up.

Serve up a menu that shows guests more about your life together. Your loved ones can order basic beef or chicken anywhere. Instead, give them a glimpse into you. Make your main course the same food you enjoyed on your first date or during another monumental moment in your courtship. Or plan the entire menu around a region that you hold close to your heart.

Weddings are filled with traditions, but that doesn't mean you can't put your own touches on the day for a special event filled with memories that are uniquely your own. Find more advice for life's special moments at elivingtoday.com.

13 Sweet Ways to Include Your Mom on Your Wedding Day

13 Sweet Ways to Include Your Mom on Your Wedding Day

Your wedding day is a monumental experience for everyone involved—especially your mom. If you're wondering how to include mom in wedding activities, there are plenty of ways to make her feel special. While you can (and should) enlist her planning help leading up to the main event, she'll be so happy to be incorporated in wedding day activities. Here, we've rounded up 13 sweet ways to include your mom(s) in your wedding, plural. These ideas are perfect for mothers of the bride and mothers of the groom—after all, both deserve to be honored at their child's wedding. (We have a feeling she'll love them.) 

25 small & chic wedding ideas for an intimate celebration

Make an intimate celebration feel extra-special with these small wedding ideas that have a big impact. We've got venue advice, décor inspiration and tips for how to ensure your day feels unique. 

The best thing about having a small wedding is that you can really treat your guests. We’re not just talking in terms of making the wedding budget go further, although that does play a part – we mean those small wedding ideas that make each person feel really special.

Writing an individual thank-you note to put on each place setting, for example, is a marathon for a guest list of 100+, but perfectly achievable for 10-20.

What’s more, having fewer guests gives you the chance to get creative with your wedding venue. You can prioritise finding a space you love over finding a space large enough to fit everyone, whether you’re looking at small wedding venues or private rooms within larger venues.

If you’ve decided that you want the size of your wedding to be more on the petite side, these are our favourite ideas for making your day unique and memorable.

🍯 Welcome Honeybee Baker to It’s All About Weddings! 🍰

🍯 Welcome Honeybee Baker to It’s All About Weddings! 🍰

We’re thrilled to welcome Honeybee Baker — where every creation is a blend of sweetness, artistry, and love! From elegantly designed wedding cakes to delightful treats that make your special day unforgettable, Honeybee Baker adds that perfect touch of magic to every celebration.

At It’s All About Weddings, we believe that every detail matters — and Honeybee Baker’s passion for perfection and creativity truly captures that spirit. Whether you’re dreaming of a classic tiered masterpiece or something uniquely you, their creations promise to make your wedding as sweet as your love story.

Welcome aboard, Honeybee Baker — we’re so excited to showcase your beautiful work and connect you with couples looking for something extraordinary! 💍✨

🍯 Welcome Honeybee Baker to It’s All About Weddings! 🍰

We’re thrilled to welcome Honeybee Baker — where every creation is a blend of sweetness, artistry, and love! From elegantly designed wedding cakes to delightful treats that make your special day unforgettable, Honeybee Baker adds that perfect touch of magic to every celebration.

At It’s All About Weddings, we believe that every detail matters — and Honeybee Baker’s passion for perfection and creativity truly captures that spirit. Whether you’re dreaming of a classic tiered masterpiece or something uniquely you, their creations promise to make your wedding as sweet as your love story.

Welcome aboard, Honeybee Baker — we’re so excited to showcase your beautiful work and connect you with couples looking for something extraordinary! 💍✨

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